15th Sunday after Pentecost
Bear one another’s burdens. These words, more than any others from our
Scriptures today, arrest my attention / even though the contrast between the
flesh and the spirit, also in this Epistle, are pretty enticing subjects to
preach about. Bear one another’s burdens: The image that comes to mind is of
everybody carrying something, like reapers hauling in their bundles, the
stronger ones saying to the weaker, ‘Here, let me help you carry your load.’
When this metaphor is translated into concrete ways of helping others, the whole
gamut of Christian spiritual and corporal works of mercy come into play, from
helping someone with financial problems to spending time with someone who’s
lonely. Bear one another’s burdens. The burdens of life are various and many,
and no one gets through life without having to carry some of its weight.
When these burdens take the form of moral weaknesses that tend towards sin, we
have a different kind of weight, different because these are not merely imposed
on us, like the pounds we are already forced to carry, but–being sinful
things–they’re to some degree voluntary burdens. By choice, we increase the
already-great burdens of life by selecting our sins. And here I would like to
advert to an expression in modern jargon that’s apropos: we say that someone is
carrying a lot of “excess baggage” with him, meaning guilt. It’s not a bad
expression, really, except for what’s often meant as its remedy, that is, merely
to drop it by forgetting it. This would be nice, were it possible, but the
burdens, the baggage we choose to carry (our sins) can’t be disposed of so
easily. They need to be lifted from us; they require outside help. “Bear one
another’s burdens.”
The first application of this is that without the Sacrament of Confession we
can’t drop the baggage of our sins. Christ has to lift them off from the
weighted soul. There is no such thing as self-forgiveness, self-absolution. If
that were possible, there would have been no need for Christ to give the Church
the power to forgive sins: “Whose sins you forgive they are given.” People who
avoid confession, trying to unburden themselves by wishing their sins away, are
playing make-believe.
A second application is that we can help others with their sin-loads not only by
counseling, advising, encouraging them to confess, but also by making
reparation. That little appreciated word reparation means a great deal: praying
for the more unfortunate, those with sins on their consciences so that they
return to the Church, go to Confession, leave their sinful associates,
relinquish their sinful lifestyles. It sometimes takes a great deal of prayer,
fasting (this is a little known but very effective way) to bring a sinful soul
back to grace, a spiritually dead person to return to life.
Here my thoughts go to the grieving widow of the Gospel, she whose only
adolescent son had just died. Parents especially, but not exclusively, feel the
immense sorrow of seeing children lose the Catholic faith, live in sin, not go
to Mass, stay away from Confession, get into the modern lifestyles where all is
fast and exciting and...so empty. The greatest act of love for another is to
help them save his soul.
Thursday this week is the feast of St. Augustine, the archetype of the man of
the world gone astray who is brought to his senses and becomes a Christian, a
bishop, a saint of the Church through the unceasing pleading of his mother, St.
Monica. We have in our parish a St. Monica Sodality, a thing I hope some day
spreads throughout the Church, by which we implore this determined, persevering
model of parents, to intercede in heaven for the return of others, especially
family, to the practice of the faith. the stories of conversions through this
means are impressive, and I would like to recommend that you take up the
suggested daily prayers to her for helping your own relatives and others to
re-practice the faith, or to discover it for the first time, as the case may be.
The advantage of the Sodality is that everyone praying also takes on everybody
else who’s on the great list of the needy. It’s a cooperative venture.
Bear one another’s burdens. The applications of this apostolic injunction are
many. They remind us of how weak we are individually, and how strong we can be
collectively. This is among the immense benefits of being incorporated into the
body of Christ, the Catholic Church.